Tuesday, February 7, 2012

How to be funny

The idea I have heard that seems to hold up is that humor is often a surprise.  It needs to be a fairly nice surprise, not a nasty one.  We recently heard this joke told to a room full of seniors, some in their 80's and beyond.  It drew a hearty response of laughter:

Jacob, age 92, and Rebecca, age 89, are all excited about their decision to get married. They go for a stroll to discuss the wedding and on the way they pass a drugstore. Jacob suggests they go in. Jacob addresses the man behind the counter:

'Are you the owner?' The pharmacist answers yes.

Says Jacob: 'We're about to get married. Do you sell heart medication?'

Pharmacist: 'Of course we do.'

Jacob: 'How about medicine for circulation?'

Pharmacist: 'All kinds.'

Jacob: 'Medicine for rheumatism, scoliosis? '

Pharmacist: 'Definitely.'

Jacob: 'How about Viagra?'

Pharmacist: 'Of course.'

Jacob: 'Medicine for memory problems, arthritis, jaundice?'

Pharmacist: 'Yes, a large variety. The works.'

Jacob: 'What about vitamins, sleeping pills, Geritol, antidotes for Parkinson's disease?'

Pharmacist: 'Absolutely.'

Jacob: 'You sell wheelchairs and walkers?'

Pharmacist: 'All speeds and sizes.'

Jacob says to the pharmacist: 'We'd like to register here for our wedding gifts, please.'


We were surprised at the ending but we also appreciated the list of items that might be of use.  I bet several people in the room already used each item mentioned and we know that we might need one of them soon.

I am prompted to think about humor, which I love, by seeing an new book in a local bookstore.  It is by the author of the book I finally selected for a friend who wanted to read more.  I thought if we both read the same book and met a time or two to talk about our reactions, he might be moved to read a bit more.  I looked over various lists of books I have read and "Big Trouble" jumped out at me.  I remember finding it very funny.  Later, I saw the movie and enjoyed the story all over again.  

As an elementary school teacher and a great-grandparent, I have had chances to be part of an audience for a child who is trying to be funny.  My experience has been that sometimes a kid can be very funny but almost never when he is trying too hard.  A prideful gleam in the eye that says "Aren't I funny?" usually kills spontaneity, lowers barriers against cliche and encourages mere silliness.  I think the same is true of adult funny people, even though they are usually better at masking their pride in their attempts at humor.

I suspect that the most useful rules are
    • Be honest and clear in both observation and description
    • Don't push for a laugh
    • Definitely avoid the modern young person's apparent fascination with profanity, which to an older person is merely sawdust mixed with the food and not appetizing.
--
Bill
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