Say you go to a dance and you meet a neat person and the two of you hit it off. Was it a big mistake not to check out every person there before getting close to that one?
Say you move to New York or a lovely little town in New Mexico. Was it a mistake not to live a year everywhere else before choosing that new location?
(I am myself changing so fast that the changes in friendships or location are secondary.)
I can regret insufficient investigation and I can see that my research was insufficient if
1. I failed to check every possibility before committing myself.
2. I become dissatisfied with any aspect of a choice I made at any time subsequent to making that choice.
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Bill
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