Help from the unconscious mind
      I just finished "A Mind of Its Own: How Our Brain Distorts and Deceives" by Cordelia Fine.   It is the 2nd book on the subject I have read this year, the other  being the excellent "The Hidden Brain" by S. Vedantam.   I wrote about  it in this post and this one.  Fine's book is not available for Kindle but I keeping voting for it to be.
  
Fine  is the mother of a young son and is an Australian psychologist.  Her  thesis is that our brains are not impartial or all that accurate but  distort things in what it considers our favor, such as emphasizing to us  our achievements and excusing our failures while putting the opposite  emphases on those of others.  Frequently, she likens the subconscious to  a good butler: efficient, unerring in doing its job and working in our  favor.  While reflecting on her statements, I remembered how long it  took me to get myself to expect the trash can in a room to be where it  is placed now instead of where it used to be.  The unconscious is not  quick to change but does so over time with enough repetition.
She  also explains that what we call our will is a part of the mind that can  be fatigued.  If you purposely and successfully resist the temptation  of a chocolate chip cookie, you may find it difficult not to violate  some other resolve you have.  She explains that it is possible to work  with the unconscious and have its efficiency assist your will.  Make  several clear statements, maybe in writing, to yourself about not eating  cookies or whatever you are working on.  Include what the resolve is,  why it is important and worth doing, when you will invoke your  resolution and any other detail you can think of.  Read the statement  several times.  Before too long, you will automatically turn away from  chocolate chip cookies, as though you assume they aren't for you.  Your  unconscious will more or less automatically prejudice against them in  favor of abstention.
Her writing makes me think there is a market  for new aspects of the self.  Forms with appropriate blanks, email  reminders, rubber bracelets ala Lance Armstrong  could be sold in a little kit that assists us in exercising more,  reading more, watching tv less, saving more and spending less or however  we could improve ourselves.


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