It seems like my wife and I get in the same arguments over and over. I decided I wanted on my own to make a list of the points that usually come up as criticisms of me. Here is my list:
Habitual, follows a routine
Poor dresser
Shouts at wife when angry
Short
Other, such as disgustingly overtipping
I read her the list and she came up with the hopeful idea that I list things she likes about me.
She notes that my being habitual is also a point in my favor, in that I contribute things regularly such as making morning coffee and evening drinks and getting us to bed on time.
I have fewer explosions of temper
I give her many compliments
