Who?
      I  think it is odd that I have so    many names.  My wife calls me by one but my daughter calls me by  another.     My family of origin used the name "Grandad" for grandfather.  I    knew my great grandchildren would find it too long to say "Great  grandad" so    we just used "Grandad" for all generations.  My great grandson said in     the foyer of a business that we were there for "my grandad's" order.     
 My    wife called one of her grandmothers "Grandma" and the other "Nana".   The    one woman was friendlier than the second so my wife was surprised to  find    herself deciding that "Nana" was the best name she could give to her  great    grandchildren as her own name.
 I    was surprised when I learned that in some parts of the British Isles,  father    is called "Da", much like "Ma" for mother.  I was familiar with Ma but  I    only used "Mom".  I liked the sound better and I was never corrected.  I had a stepfather whom I loved and admired  and    he was "Dad".  My sister and I agreed that our father was "Daddy",  often    with the accent on the last syllable to be sure it was heard and used  to    differentiate one man from the other.
 Three    of our four great grandchildren are still too young for school but the  oldest    is not.  We get many comments from the teachers about the surprising    number of individuals who show up to take him home from school.  There     are at least 7 people who pick him up on different days.  In these  times    of heightened security and privacy concerns and practices, it is not  easy for    busy teachers to know who is showing up and if that person is  legitimately    empowered to go off with our great grandson.
 I    think it is impressive that several people of different generations  can have a    conversation and all use different names to refer to each other  without anyone    getting confused or misunderstanding a reference.  


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